And that’s a fact! 😉 Trust me, I know what I’m talking about. Aggressive people are very insecure and fearful. They take their frustrations out on the people around them, then they wonder why they feel so alone. Nobody in their right mind would rush to be around someone who is aggressive, negative, and verbally abusive.
So you think you can change other people. Wrong, that’s an excuse to stay in an abusive relationship. I ain’t mad at cha. Suffice it to say, trying to change other people is the easy way out. You and I know it takes courage to rid yourself of aggressive people in your life. Especially if they’re blood-related or related by marriage.
Courage is synonymous with being psychologically strong. I can only speak for myself, but being a victim was a way of life for me back in the day. I no longer subscribe to that way of life, thank GOD! Today, all I can say to contentious people, “Bye Felicia or Boy Bye.”
I can tell you this, sowing and cultivating the seeds of a $30 Federal minimum wage law has its benefits. Why? Because you and I are worthy of abundance. Yeah, even contentious people are worthy of abundance.
Today, being confronted by a contentious person has its benefits for me. They are my teachers. They teach me to master my emotions. Whenever I’m confronted by a contentious person, I repeat to myself, “I choose peace.” Trust me, it’s a game changer.